Thursday, August 22, 2013

PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE

At the end of July, I went for a well deserved 14-day vacation.  I left Boguila, traveled by vehicle to Bangui and took a flight for Paris, France.  I met with my husband and we spent the next two weeks visiting Normandy. I was fortunate to discover my French ancestors, the Gagnons, who left their homes in the hopes of a better life to go to the Nouvelle-France in 1640, and my fellow Canadians, who left their country to liberate France from the horror of German occupation when they participated in the Allies D-Day on 6 June 1944. 


The Circle of Life. 


Long-awaited homecoming to my French roots.  Respectful thoughts for the Canadian sacrifice.


Two separate events linked together by one goal: the hope for a peaceful and happy future.


This hope for happiness also exists here, in Central African Republic. It has lived here for many decades. It is unable, however, to set its roots – the living conditions here will not allow it.  Many have tried to force contentment by imposing their ideas, their culture, their way of life.  Despite the benefits brought by modernity in their mother land, here, they do not have their place as they are not well understood.  I could compare this statement with an infant that does not know how to walk and to whom we suddenly enforce running.  He is not ready – physically and intellectually.  We could try again and again to teach this child to run but he must first learn to walk.  And this takes time, patience, determination.


Western countries, the modern world, went through this learning phase: they know how to walk and now they are uncovering how to run.  They learned to walk over many long years, even centuries.  They fell many times, getting up and learning from each of their falls.  Then they realized that they would go faster and be more efficient if they ran.  At the same time, they want to teach the rest of the world how great it is to walk.  But in certain places, they are still crawling.  They need time to learn at their own rhythm and we need to respect their learning path.


I realized in Boguila that even if we come with great purpose, the African world needs time.  Time to learn, time to assimilate, time to integrate.  It has to grasp and digest in order to understand what we are trying to explain.  As long as this does not take place, our efforts will be unsuccessful.  In fact, they will not be well perceived and will cause conflict amongst the less educated populations.

I can arrive in Boguila, filled with dreams of changing their world and intent on teaching all I know to the nurses and secourists so that we improve a non-existent health system but if these notions are not understood by the population living in the bush, my efforts will be useless.  .  I understood that I have to take baby steps.  A specific concept, which might appear insignificant to us but means a huge change for the people of Boguila, will go much further if it is accepted and integrated slowly than if brought upon abruptly.  I am starting to appreciate that here, patience is important. And even more significant is respect. 


MSF Holland took over the Boguila project over seven years ago.  The people of Boguila have made giant leaps, thanks to the various teams that came here.  But now, the population requires more than a group of expatriates to help them.  If we want the changes that we brought to take hold and become the standard, the country needs to take charge.  The international community must become involved and show some patience.  We went from being barbarians to becoming civilized over a period of a thousand years.  How can we ask the same growth from the African people in less than fifty years?  « Rome was not built in one day… »


Don’t you think that we should give them some time to find themselves instead of insisting on a instant assimilation of our views and ideas?


Janique